有一个男生，在你喜欢他的时候仗着你的喜欢为所欲为，后来对他看淡了，过了很长时间他跟你表白，该答应他吗？
一般以这种句式提问的人，“对方怎么怎么，我该怎么办”，都是想获得赞同支持的，因为认为这是个问题，如果题主对这个男的没感情了，压根不存在这个问题。
问你自己，还喜欢他就答应，不喜欢就不答应，我们路人也分不清他是不甘心重视自己的人轻视自己想捉你回去玩弄，还是真心发现你的好而醒悟，或是目前没更好的选择撩你，反正我觉得能仗着你的好肆无忌惮的人，人品不佳也不喜欢你。
如果表白没有让你感觉到惊喜，我想你就没必要接受他了。
我可以想象你的心路历程，先是非常喜欢一个男孩，然后你大胆地主动去追求他，向他表达你的爱，那个男孩没有拒绝你，但是也没有那么热烈的回应你，而且对你为所欲为，满不在乎，这种情况下，我想他只是喜欢你对他的爱而已。
在默默付出了一段时间以后，你发现他依然对你没有太多回应，你的心就会慢慢的变得冷了，感情也随之变得冷淡了，然后你就会越来越发现他的缺点，而此时爱情也离你越来越远。
随着时间的推移，你已经对他厌烦了，你不再爱他了，就是这么简单，你的爱情没了，所以即使他对你变得特别好，你也很难再重新爱上他，因为如果你一直爱着他，你就不会有淡了的感觉，即使他为所欲为，你依然会在他身边伴他左右。
所以当他，突然有一天对你表白的时候，如果你没有感到惊喜，那么我建议你还是放弃这段感情吧，这个男生好不好已经没有什么关系了，因为你的心底已经不爱他了…
你只需要思考一个问题就足够了：
当初他为所欲为所做的事情，如果再次发生，或者更甚，你能否忍受，一辈子不吭声？
如果能，那“一个愿打一个愿挨”，也许在你的世界里，他是浪子回头金不换，也许你觉得你们是两情相悦，觉得他会变得比以前更好，那你接受吧，我也不好再说什么了。
但是我想你应该不能忍受。
因为你已经失望过一次，看透了眼前人，当初他为所欲为时你一定伤心欲绝，所以你说你看淡了。
但现在他又来撩拨你，其实你有点心动，所以才会问这个问题，但此刻的心动，已经不再是从前那份纯粹的爱情了，你只是舍不得自己的一切付出，你只是有点不甘心自己的努力却得来这么一个结果而已。
天下无不散的筵席，缘分的尽头就是分手，当初选择分手一定有原因，当初自己能够看淡也一定有足够的理由支撑，当初他能够为所欲为，现在也可以，而当初你能够看淡，现在却不一定可以，何苦自己为难自己！
everything is madness， let go is the way. you have already seen it, so why do you need to waste your time and effort on this? will you do better if you just let go?
he went around and found no one better than him. he wanted to find someone who could capture his attention. but he didn’t succeed in doing that. he felt like he was being cheated. so he started to pursue her again.
he told you that he would wait for you until you were ready to take action. he didn’t want to give up yet. but he realized that he had done enough. he couldn’t bear the idea of losing you.
so when he came back to see you, he knew that you still loved him. he knew how he could control you. he wanted to tell you that he was prepared for you.
“wait and see,” he said to you. “i won’t tell you what i really think.”
you thought that he was trying to play you off. he wanted to know if you were ready to take action. but you felt that you were too late. he wanted to catch you before he lost you.
it was hard for you to accept his proposal. but you also couldn’t ignore the fact that he had been able to control you. you were not sure whether he would be able to do the same with you now.
what should you do? if he was willing to wait for you, then he probably deserved to. if he was just playing games, then you should just let him go.
the next day, he went out to look for you. he saw that you still loved him. he wanted to convince you that he was willing to take action.
he proposed to you. he didn’t want to say anything to you directly. he wanted to make you feel comfortable. but he couldn’t help but feel uncomfortable. he felt like he was being caught in a trap.
to decide whether to accept his proposal or not, you had to make a decision. if he was willing to wait for you, then he probably deserved to. if he was just playing games, then you should just let him go.
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